NONE of your **** business.

Ryan has dated a few crazies in his past. I don't know what it is about Ryan, but I feel like every girl he has dated has turned into the definition of "crazy ex-girlfriend" Keep in mind that Ryan and I have been married for 3 years this July. One of his Ex girlfriends in particular will now be getting a blog post JUST FOR HER! Just because I have heard so much sh** coming out of her mouth lately and It has pushed me too far. 

This girl works with Ryan's mother so we get to hear ALL of the lovely things she says, so here we go. 

She tells everyone that she dated Ryan for two years! Normally that would be okay, except for they have only been on ONE date. Ask her what two years, I bet you money it will be from July 2007-July 2009. The two years Ryan was serving a mission in BRAZIL!  

This girl rolls her eyes and says a lovely comment like, "kill me now" or "eww gross" every time we see her. 

She drives by our house three or four times daily, which wouldn't bug me because it IS a small town, she MIGHT live in the apartments down the road from us, BUT when she drives by she stares. Not a quick glance but a full on stare. At the car, the windows, the door, the cracks in the sidewalk, the leaves on the trees, each piece of grass, each hole in my fence, she stares at! 

She was engaged to Ryan. SHE called it off though, so of course Ryan is heart broken over it.

I've heard that she has tried to start a few rumors like: 

Ryan is miserable in our marriage. 

He wont divorce me because he "feels bad" for me. 

Ryan never wants to be around me and tries to get away from me all the time, that is why he works 12 hour shifts. 

So HERE is your reality check hunny. And anyone else who doubts. 

Ryan works 12 hour shifts because that is HIS job and most of the people he works with jobs'. He doesn't have a choice what hours he works. They go in at 7am and they come home at 7pm or 7pm to 7am. Sorry, that's just the way it works.

Ryan spends his days off with ME, not because I force him to but because he WANTS to. I have tried, many times, to get Ryan to go hang out with someone besides his boring old wife, and guess what? He chooses me every time. 

Our marriage is far from dead or miserable. We are going on our three year mark and we still have sex at LEAST once a day (it is the best and funnest form of exercise after all)

He still kisses me each morning and night and a hundred times a day in between. 

We still laugh, and tease, and enjoy each other. 

We work out together, we play together, we cook together, we clean together, we eat together, we sleep together, we shop together, we shower together, we pray together. Are you starting to see my point? We are together all the time, because we love each other. Because we want to be together and we enjoy being together. NOT because we have a marriage license that is "forcing" us to be together, not because Ryan feels bad for me. 

We want to be together and that is why we got married and are still married. We want to be together and that is why we started a family and will keep growing our family.(NO NO NO that is not an announcement! but yes, in the FUTURE, we do plan on having another kid.) 

We want to be together and that is why you will never see one of us without the other. 

But BELIEVE me IF our fireworks are ever doused and our happily ever after does end in divorce. I will let you have him, if he wants you. HAHA! I wouldn't keep your hopes up though.